This is beautifully written. My husband and I don’t have children yet, but since I recently became an aunt (which is awesome!!), I’ve been thinking a lot about it. Honestly, while I’ve always wanted children, I’ve been a bit afraid of the idea of becoming a mother because I don’t want to go into it thinking they will fulfill something in me that’s lacking. Like you said, children are image-bearers; they’re real, individual people. I really appreciate this insight, though: “motherhood has been a space for becoming; it has shaped and reshaped me to look more like Christ.” This feels important, so I’m going to ponder it for a while.
Also, if you end up writing that book, I will definitely buy it!
I think if you are already considering it, you will be quite safe from seeking emotional fulfillment from any future children. Or, at the least, you will recognize it when it happens. I'm glad the piece resonated with you even though you do not currently have children. Being an aunt is awesome. I remember people who filled that role for me and hope I do for other children as well. Thank you for the encouragement about the book!
This is beautifully written. My husband and I don’t have children yet, but since I recently became an aunt (which is awesome!!), I’ve been thinking a lot about it. Honestly, while I’ve always wanted children, I’ve been a bit afraid of the idea of becoming a mother because I don’t want to go into it thinking they will fulfill something in me that’s lacking. Like you said, children are image-bearers; they’re real, individual people. I really appreciate this insight, though: “motherhood has been a space for becoming; it has shaped and reshaped me to look more like Christ.” This feels important, so I’m going to ponder it for a while.
Also, if you end up writing that book, I will definitely buy it!
I think if you are already considering it, you will be quite safe from seeking emotional fulfillment from any future children. Or, at the least, you will recognize it when it happens. I'm glad the piece resonated with you even though you do not currently have children. Being an aunt is awesome. I remember people who filled that role for me and hope I do for other children as well. Thank you for the encouragement about the book!